The Empowered Parent Mastermind

How to create a respectful, honest relationship with your teen without bending over backwards, even if what you’ve tried so far isn’t working.

Register for the Empowered Parent Mastermind now! 

Registration closes January 25th at midnight.

What would it be like to have open and honest conversations with your teen while feeling respected and heard WITHOUT the nagging, yelling, or stressful silence?

Here’s a Secret…You Can!

Does this sound familiar?

If you answered YES to any of the above... You're in the RIGHT SPOT!

“Thank you once again for laying the foundation to connecting with my son! Things are a lot more positive, at home. Much more open and honest conversations. I am even getting hugs at the football club with all his friends around. Sometimes I need to pinch myself. Forever grateful😘❤️❤️”
Katina G.

The truth is, parenting IS hard, and your teen didn’t come with an instruction manual.If you want to have a respectful, healthy relationship with your teen and create a life where open and honest conversations are the norm…then it’s important to read every word on this page…

I want you to take a moment to imagine…

Who am I and why should you care?

I'm Aly Pain

I know firsthand what it feels like to be a teenager, growing up in a well-meaning family that I was so different from them they didn’t know what to do with me. On the outside I had it all together, winning academic and athletic awards, yet on the inside I felt so disconnected, unloved, and angry. I was wraught with anxiety from falling short of perfect every day, developed an eating disorder, and attempted suicide by the time I was 17.

I vividly remember acting out in all sorts of ways and still felt hopeless and powerless to change my situation. I didn’t know how to communicate my feelings or what I needed in a way my family could hear me.

When I went away to university I knew right away the messages going on in my head weren’t normal and got myself into counselling in a hot minute. I spent the next 10 years fiercely pursuing healing to free myself my my emotional pain and the negative coping patterns I’d developed.

When I became a parent, I was resolved to creating a different experience for my children. Our children would feel loved and celebrated, they’d be polite and compliant, and I’d never need to raise my voice or a hand ……BAHAHA!! Then I realized, “Holy crap! This is hard!”

I found myself solo parenting our two boys while my husband was away for extended periods, there was more month than money, and starting to recognize the same negative patterns from my past. You know, when you open your mouth and your parent’s voice comes out?!

I found myself on my knees in tears, feeling crushed by the weight of parenting alone, so far from the fantasy I had in mind with no clue how to get out. I felt like I was drowning and could barely breathe. Every day, I felt I was climbing a slippery, muddy wall and getting nowhere, yet desperately longing for a new reality.

How could this be happening? I had done all this healing and learning! I began to wonder…”Is there something wrong with me? Maybe I wasn’t different after all?”

During my life and relationship systems coaching training, I realized how dysfunctional relationship patterns are created, AND how to untangle and heal from them. I knew I needed to share these powerful tools to support parents to better understand teens like me. I felt driven to share my knowledge, experience, and education so families could effectively communicate and connect in healthy, lasting relationships with far less stress, emotional pain, or trauma.

After more healing, I took ownership of my monsters and realized I was both parts of the problem and the solution. Projecting my pain on anyone wasn’t solving anything.

I started to see the learning I’d done in a new light and implemented tools that once felt complicated and awkward, building confidence and mastery with new skills and greater awareness. My relationship with our boys became easier and less frustrating as I became the parent I wanted to be and knew was possible.

Going through those changes was hard and I got it wrong a lot! I was constantly dealing with my own fear and anxiety, and my impulse to control the situation and my children while expecting an unattainable perfection. All this while dealing with our oldest child who was diagnosed with his own anxiety disorders.

I dug deep into my own calm and find a presence and compassion for myself while being present for our boys. I learned to let them be boys and have that be messy sometimes.

As an avid learner, spending over 2 decades in personal development training, I’ve read hundreds of books about the brain and relationship studies from the top researchers and therapists. I developed effective coping techniques for myself and grew a successful coaching practice over the last 14 years, setting hundreds of others free from negative and painful relationship patterns.

Our boys are becoming young men who take responsibility for their actions and their impact. They clearly communicate their thoughts and feelings and they listen without judgment. They’re compassionate and respectful, and I don’t remember the last time we had to use discipline.

My husband and I often ask each other “How did we get these two?” Our teenagers are comfortable and confident in their own skin, have supportive and constructive friendships, and make choices based on strong values. We absolutely enjoy being around our boys as they take on the next phase of ‘learning to adult’.

I’ve become a trusted guest expert for numerous publications and podcasts, including the on-air parenting expert for SunFM 105.7 Vernon, What She Said podcast, and regular contributor for Calgary’s Child and MOMeo Magazine.

My self-tested, client proven process has been so successful with our boys, and the families I’ve worked with, and I know it can work for you too.

I want you to feel heard, appreciated, and respected while enjoying your relationship with your teen.

Let me introduce you to my secret weapon called…

“The Empowered Parent Mastermind”

How to create a respectful, honest relationship with your teen without bending over backward, even if what you’ve tried so far isn’t working.​

The Empowered Parent Mastermind is my step-by-step program and community that will teach you how to have a respectful, honest relationship with your teen!

Now you can stop dealing with frequent outbursts or stressful silence and begin to have real conversations.

Inside, you’ll discover strategies I share with my clients to get you results faster than anyone ever could on their own, without reading more books or searching the internet.

This is the same system I used to find a new way of parenting without having to ‘rollover’ and give even more of myself.

And the best part is, I’m going to show you how to have meaningful conversations so you can deepen or rebuild trust with your teen.

You can’t find these strategies anywhere online except in this course. Trust me, I tried!

"I just approached my teen daughter in the way you described. She got a huge smile on her face, said thank you, and said I love you repeatedly ❤️"

Here’s what’s inside:

You have access to all educational material, discussions, recordings of sessions, and questions. 

The best conversations happen between sessions right in the FB group where you’ll hear from parents just like yourself and get insights on what’s working, and what’s not. This is a safe place to share and support each other while learning different perspectives on similar issues. Hearing what others are doing and how they are doing it can often spark new insights and ideas on how to move forward in your own family.

How many times have you been in a program and felt overwhelmed by the content that moved too fast without access to an expert to ask questions and process the information? Not here. Aly goes LIVE in the private parenting community every week to be present to your questions and provide more personalized support so you get the most value from the program.

Even when you overcome challenges with your teen in the program, the teen years are like a roller coaster with good days and hard ones. With lifetime access to your content and resources, you’ll always have a place to come back to when your relationship with your teen feels hard or your younger children reach the teen years.

No matter what your learning style is, Aly has you covered. The workbook has all the materials you need to follow along, deepen your learning, understand the tools and take notes. Your workbook becomes your personal resource whenever you need it.

You’ll also receive an additional download to help guide your communications during and after the program. The tools in the guide are fun, easy to understand and use so you can continue to foster positive change and growth in your relationship with your teen.

You get ALL of Aly’s top recommendations for books, articles, social channels to follow and more. It’s basically 20+ years of research and education that Aly has learned, right at your fingertips.

VIP's get access to:

Access to Aly on Voxer to ask real-time questions in the hard moments with your teen. It’s voice messaging and texting through the full 8 week program!

60 minutes of 1:1 coaching with Aly

With Everything You’re Getting… You’ll Know EXACTLY How To

I’ll even show you how to stop the negative patterns so you don’t end up in this same place a year from now!

The Empowered Parent Mastermind​

How to create a respectful, honest relationship with your teen without bending over backward, even if what you’ve tried so far hasn’t worked


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The Empowered Parent Mastermind​

How to create a respectful, honest relationship with your teen without bending over backward, even if what you’ve tried so far hasn’t worked


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"Before I joined Aly’s group, I was full of resentment. I avoided asking for what I needed because I didn’t know how without being angry or condescending. My emotions were a boiling, silent war inside me. Aly helped me learn better ways to identify my resentment and understand where to set better boundaries. On the first day, I created an agreement with my family about the state of the kitchen and went from a dirty counter and sink full of dishes to spotless the next morning!"
Married mom of 2 boys